So, you’re engaged? First of all, congratulations! 🎉 Secondly—welcome to the wonderful (and slightly chaotic) world of wedding planning. You’re about to Google more than you ever have in your life. And if you’re here, that means one of those searches was:
“Where do I find an LGBTQ+ friendly wedding photographer who actually gets me?”
Great question! Your wedding photographer will be by your side during one of the most emotional, intimate, and downright magical days of your life. So, let’s make sure you find someone who doesn’t just tolerate your love story but truly celebrates it. Here’s exactly how to do it.
1. Start with LGBTQ+ Wedding Directories (No Guesswork Required!)
Want to skip the awkward “Hey, are you okay with queer weddings?” conversation? These directories are filled with wedding photographers who openly support and celebrate LGBTQ+ couples:
📌 Equally Wed – A powerhouse of LGBTQ+ wedding inspiration and a vendor directory.
📌 Dancing With Her – Focused on LGBTQ+ women and non-binary folks.
📌 Pridezillas – Because your wedding should be as bold and vibrant as you are.
📌 Love Inc. – A wedding magazine that only features inclusive vendors.
These sites do the heavy lifting for you, listing photographers who are not just willing to work with LGBTQ+ couples, but genuinely excited to.
2. Get Recommendations from the Community (Because Word of Mouth is Gold)
Queer people love to share safe spaces, and that includes wedding vendors. If you’re part of any LGBTQ+ Facebook groups, Reddit communities, or local queer organizations, drop a post asking for recommendations.
🌈 Where to ask?
- Reddit: Check out r/lgbt and r/weddingplanning.
- Local LGBTQ+ centers & community boards – Many have lists of queer-friendly businesses.
- Instagram & TikTok hashtags – Try #LGBTQWeddingPhotographer, #QueerWeddings, or #InclusiveWeddingPhotographer.
3. Stalk Their Website & Social Media (Read Between the Lines!)
A truly LGBTQ+-friendly photographer won’t just say they’re inclusive—they’ll show it. Here’s what to look for:
✅ Representation in their portfolio – Do they feature LGBTQ+ couples? If their Instagram is all straight, cis couples, that might be a red flag.
✅ Language matters – Do they use inclusive terms like “partners” instead of just “bride and groom”?
✅ Testimonials from LGBTQ+ couples – If queer couples are raving about them, that’s a great sign.
✅ Allyship beyond business – Do they support LGBTQ+ causes or engage with the community beyond Pride Month?
A photographer’s online presence should make you feel seen—if it doesn’t, keep scrolling.
4. Interview Your Photographer (Yes, You’re Interviewing THEM!)
Once you’ve found a photographer you think you love, set up a chat. Instead of jumping straight into pricing, start by feeling out their vibe.
Here are some questions to ask:
💬 “Have you photographed LGBTQ+ weddings before?”
(You want enthusiasm, not hesitation!)
💬 “How do you create a comfortable space for all couples?”
(Their answer should go beyond “I treat everyone the same”—inclusivity requires intention!)
💬 “Do you have LGBTQ+ couples in your portfolio?”
(If not, ask why. Their response will tell you everything.)
A photographer who is truly inclusive will light up at the chance to photograph LGBTQ+ love stories. If they seem uncomfortable or dismissive, trust your gut and move on.
5. Planning a Destination Wedding? Find a Photographer Who Travels!
If you’re dreaming of a destination wedding, you’ll need a photographer who’s not only LGBTQ+-friendly but also travel-ready! Some of the most stunning and LGBTQ+-friendly locations include:
🇮🇹 Italy – Florence, Positano, Lake Como – pure romance.
🇫🇷 France – Paris, Nice, Bordeaux – a dream come true.
🇬🇷 Greece – Santorini, Mykonos, Athens – the perfect sunset backdrop.
🇲🇽 Mexico – Tulum, Cancun, Playa del Carmen – vibrant and welcoming.
🇺🇸 Hawaii, USA – Maui, Oahu, Kauai – paradise found.
(Pro tip: Always check local laws and attitudes toward LGBTQ+ marriages before booking.)
6. Trust Your Instincts (Because You Deserve to Feel Celebrated)
At the end of the day, this is your wedding. If a photographer makes you feel anything less than celebrated, they’re not the right fit. Your wedding photographer should feel like a friend, not just a vendor.
✔ Do they make you feel comfortable?
✔ Do they seem genuinely excited to capture your love story?
✔ Do they celebrate diversity in love through their work?
If yes—congrats! You’ve found your perfect wedding photographer. If not, keep searching—your love story deserves to be captured by someone who truly sees you.
Let’s Capture Your Love Story Together!
If you’re looking for a photographer who will celebrate you, honor your love, and capture every beautiful, ridiculous, emotional moment—hi, I’m Serg, and I’d love to be part of your day.
📸 Check out my portfolio: Your Happy Moments Blog
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💌 Let’s chat! Contact me here and let’s start planning your dream wedding photography.
Because love is love, and your story deserves to be told beautifully. ❤️
